PinnedPublished inThe ROSI Co-opWhen Someone Suggests I ‘Just Let It Go’Why can’t I brush those pesky sexual abuse memories under the rug? They are such a downer for my loved ones, after all…Feb 11, 2021Feb 11, 2021
What’s the difference between BDSM and Assault?Spoiler alert: It’s consent. Enthusiastic, ethical, communicative, ongoing consent. How do I know? I’ve lived it both ways.Feb 11, 2021Feb 11, 2021
Published inThe ROSI Co-opStages of Sexual Abuse and RecoveryThese stages serve as a framework for making sense of a life steeped in sexual trauma. Hopefully, friend, it will make sense for you, too…Feb 5, 2020Feb 5, 2020
The Guy/Girl Experience in an Open Lifestyle (Part 1): Open Marriage; Now What?The first of a six-part series about the role, reality, and perception of men and women in an open lifestyle.Oct 16, 20191Oct 16, 20191
Reclaiming the FantasyI came across bits and pieces of myself today. They were my naughty, sexual fantasies. Raw images and plotlines that only come out when…Mar 13, 20192Mar 13, 20192
Catch UpIt’s one thing to take a breath. Self-Care is all over the place as a solution when life makes us hectic. It’s quite another thing…Mar 4, 2019Mar 4, 2019
Soothing: “What’s Wrong, Honey?”You ask me, “What? What’s wrong? What did I do now?”Feb 19, 2019Feb 19, 2019